Cellular memories

 One year on from our family holiday in Tuscany, I took myself to Peebles Hydro for a two day spa break as a birthday treat to myself. This is continuing the tradition that Andy set, many, many years ago... as every year,  we went somewhere as his birthday pressy to me. He said that it saved him thinking about a gift. His words, not mine!

... and it would appear that I am still receiving that gift, as my room was upgraded at reception and a welcome package was waiting for me. As well as a bottle of prosecco from Gordon...

I am very grateful for all that came my way this birthday. The spa break of course with a wonderful massage and the precious time to chill and ponder on what comes next.

Also the cards and messages, the thoughtful presents and the moments of meeting strangers and finding shared connections to life's journey. It was great sharing memories of Renfrew, the Victoria Baths, Cockles Loan and primary/secondary school education as it was in the "olden days"

Thank you Una and Kirsty for your company. I would like to think we will reconnect again, maybe when you next visit Millport...

... or maybe bump into you in Wilkies!

Now to explain the title of "cellular memories". The following are memories of Andy and myself in cellular form, a snapshot if you like, of a precious relationship. They are a wonderful reminder of our moments together. However I also have memories that are cellular, stored in my body, etched by unspoken words, ingrained in kindly actions and recalled at moments of crisis or in times of joy.

I have been asked to write and article for APF from the perspective of a carer after the loss of a loved one. It was very difficult to write but did focus my thoughts on life's direction and purpose. Once written and submitted, I was then asked to send a photo of Andy and myself to accompany the article.

So, many hours have been spent foraging through photos and seeing our relationship through those cellular memories that were frozen in the eyes of others. It has been a joy to recall those precious moments.

Kincardine, Canada

  

Taking over...

Happy days

Lockdown Yoga

After Lockdown

There are so many cellular moments, but these few are memories that remind me of our relationship.

 One of shared times together but more importantly of living with laughter and smiles, sharing so many good times and walking together in the same direction and with purpose.

Walking Largs prom